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Cancer Support Comes in Many Forms:  Friend's Perspective

1/25/2016

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​As you know, as a part of #CCAM I wanted to touch on how cancer impacts not only the person but family and friends of an individual with cancer as well.  This special blog is written by a woman who I met right after I was hired at the school I currently work at.  Little did we know at that time we would become part of a great circle of friends! I am so thankful to have such a dedicated team of friends and family, each who play an important role in my life.  I hope you take a few moments to see how Jessie's life, as one of my great friends, has been impacted due to my experience with cervical cancer. - Erica

I met Erica in May of 2013.  I was asked to attend a luncheon with our principal, the special education director, Stefanie, and a new special education teacher that would be joining our school (the awesome Ms. Erica).  Little did I know that this luncheon would change the course of my friendships forever. 
When I met Erica, she was so put together that I thought she was older than me.  We also had a lot in common.  We both went to Ball State.  We both were teachers, and we both had kids around the same age.  We both had significant others who were pretty outstanding men.  She became a close friend in December 2013 after a very interesting Indiana Ice game.    
When I heard that Erica had cancer in April 2014, it rocked me.  I had heard about her first time with caner and how she had beaten it, so I was thinking that it would be a piece of cake.  Surgery, maybe a little radiation.  Good to go.  She could do this again and beat it again.  She’s one of the strongest people I know.  I never thought for a moment at first that she would be anything, but quick and painless.  Then, I heard the diagnosis of how bad the cancer was this time around, and I was scared.  How could cancer grow that fast in such a short amount of time?  What was going to happen?  
The hardest part for me was not being able to do more.  I didn’t want to show my fear to her, so I tried to be there for her in any and every way that I could be.  We would have Wylee, her son, over to play with our kids.  I’d take him home with us from school when she had appointments or needed some time.  Erica would call me to get away, and I would drop what I was doing, which was usually nothing, and go hang out with her, take her out, go shopping, whatever it was that she wanted to do.  At her wedding, I helped with baking pies and running people to and from the wedding site and hauling kegs. 
I only made one appearance at her chemo treatments, but it was quite an eventful one.  The nurse who was administering her chemo accidentally spilled a couple tiny drops on my flip flop when she was attaching it to the IV.  I didn’t think anything of it.  I had brought my computer to watch movies with Erica, and I had planned to be there all day.   Within an hour, I was in bathroom, vomiting profusely.  I ended up in the ER downstairs from the chemo ward – JR having to drive me in a wheelchair through the back channels of the hospital.  I had never been so sick, so fast and didn’t realize it could have been from the chemo barely touching my skin.  If this tiny amount of chemo could make me this sick, I could not imagine how Erica was putting this into her body and still managing to be so strong.  She was incredible. 
I think the biggest thing that someone can do when their friend is battling cancer is to be there for them.  Go out.  Stay in.  Watch a movie.  Go shopping.  Make them laugh.  Erica has the greatest sense of humor.  She hasn’t let the cancer take that away.  She’s the strongest person I’ve ever met.  There are days that I wish I could do more for her, but being her friend is the best gift I could ever ask for and I’ll do anything that I can to protect this amazing woman.  She is incredible.  She is strong.  She is remarkable.  She shows me how to live each and every day.  

--Jessie



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Falcao Roland
7/21/2019 06:34:46 am

I has suffered for Human papillomavirus HPV) for 2years, I was given some tablets at the hospital but I refused to take it, They said I have to be on it for life so I don't want take a drugs everyday for life. No point in taking medicine everyday when u won't get cure from it and I was advice to seek for natural herbal cure, after some time I found Dr Olori is the most trustful herbalist that have herbs to cure wicked symptom's,I emailed Dr Olori, for 2weeks been his patient he cured my (HPV) with his herbal. I only used his natural herbs for two weeks it was 100% cure. I'm not (HPV) patient anymore. I'm happy about it i finally got cured out of this mess been in my body for 2years. I also recommend you if you're living with (HPV) or herpes symptoms i also want you to be free contact dr Olori with the email attach to my post. droloriherbalcenter@gmail.com
WhtasApp him via +2349053311935

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Falcao Roland
7/21/2019 06:35:28 am

I has suffered for Human papillomavirus HPV) for 2years, I was given some tablets at the hospital but I refused to take it, They said I have to be on it for life so I don't want take a drugs everyday for life. No point in taking medicine everyday when u won't get cure from it and I was advice to seek for natural herbal cure, after some time I found Dr Olori is the most trustful herbalist that have herbs to cure wicked symptom's,I emailed Dr Olori, for 2weeks been his patient he cured my (HPV) with his herbal. I only used his natural herbs for two weeks it was 100% cure. I'm not (HPV) patient anymore. I'm happy about it i finally got cured out of this mess been in my body for 2years. I also recommend you if you're living with (HPV) or herpes symptoms i also want you to be free contact dr Olori with the email attach to my post. droloriherbalcenter@gmail.com
WhtasApp him via +2349053311935..

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    Erica is a 32 year old cervical cancer advocate who is out living cancer for the third time. When she isn’t advocating for cervical cancer and HPV awareness as a Cervivor Ambassador, she previously oversaw the STEM program at the school where she was an educator; she now helps coordinate the robotics program. Erica enjoys spending time with her husband and son in their Indianapolis neighborhood, as well as pursuing new and adventurous hobbies. She can most recently be found fawning over kayaks and daydreaming of returning to whitewater kayaking with First Descents, an organization for young adults impacted by cancer. 

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